Parenting tips: Tackling online bullying

By Triple P 

Bullying online, whether it's through email, text or social media, can have a significant impact on children. If you're concerned about keeping your child safe from online risks, you're not alone.

Triple P's largest survey of parents and carers found that 82 per cent feel the same. During National Bullying No Way Week (August 12-16), Triple P is reminding us how crucial it is to help children stay safer online. Here are some practical tips.

Start the conversation

When discussing cyberbullying with younger kids, keep it simple and talk about being kind online. With tweens and teens, respect their privacy and show interest in their online activities. Encourage them to consider the impact of their messages and to always treat others with respect, and to expect the same for themselves. You don't always have to have serious talks. Casual, frequent chats work well too.

Help kids feel prepared

‘What if’ scenarios help kids feel prepared to handle tricky situations. For younger children, you could ask them how they would feel if a stranger tried to message them while they were playing a game online and discuss what they could do, like telling a grown-up about the message. With teens, you could talk about how they would feel if they saw hurtful comments about a classmate on social media and explore different ways they could respond.

Create a calm, supportive space

Kids often feel embarrassed or scared to talk to their parents about things happening online, especially if they think they'll get in trouble. Tell them it's okay to feel afraid or worried, and they won't get in trouble for coming to you. Stay calm and let them know you're always available to listen and help, no matter what.

If there's a concern that your child is being bullied online, you can seek help from the eSafety Commissioner (esafety.gov.au) or Kids Helpline (kidshelpline.com.au).

To feel more confident in your parenting skills and help kids grow up capable and resilient, you can access free online courses at triplep-parenting.net.au